Was I WRONG to gamble the family money away?
Before reading, please do not judge me and please only answer if you’re going to give honest answers! I am NOT making this up, so bare with me.
I am 27, just finished my GED and was debating whether to go to college. I live at home with the folks, and have my very own bedroom- with home phone! I never have owned things like my own phone before. I find myself calling my girlfriends late at night and playing with the phone cord on one finger. Anyways…My family sat me down some time ago and said they were tired of me living at home wasting my life. I was a bit offended, but listened.
My family told me they saved up ,000 for me to go to college, and that I should try to apply to some community schools first. I agreed, and was excited to already declare my major in front of them- business, with a concentration in finance.
I was accepted into a college, and my parents then deposited the funds into my bank account. They wanted me to be responsible for my own management, since it was my major after all.
But right before the first semester started, my best friend Besty took me on a trip to a casino (we live in Wisconsin). I sat down at a slot machine and put in . As I played the machine, I won! I won 0. I couldn’t believe it. I figured if it was this easy to play slots, I could earn thousands of dollars at the casino and save up to pay for an apartment. As the evening dwindled on, I sadly was losing…I lost over ,000. Betsy understood, and told me we still had one more day. But I was out of money. Then it dawned on me- I still had the ,000 my parents had put in my other account. And I happened to have the debit card on me. So I withdrew a quick ,000 from the account and played on. I lost all of it. As I made my way back to the ATM, Betsy told me to stop, and that I was making a huge mistake. I told her to mind her damn business- it was MY life and I knew what I was doing.
I ended up losing ,000 in one night on slot machines. It took me about six hours, with a dinner break inbetween at their tasty buffet. I was in shocked horror as Betsy and me returned home. I had no money left for school. I called my parents to explain what happened, and to demand ,000- ,000 for school, and ,000 for a trip back to the Casino to try to make up Apartment Saving Money, but they flat-out refused! They told me I was cut off, and that I was very stupid for gambling the money. I was so mad at them calling me stupid, and for denying me the money.
Was I wrong to do this? I know gambling is addicting, but I had a system! I’m unique- I’m not like these other people who throw all their loot away. I was on a winning streak until the end. And My parents are awful to cut me off and tell me they’re done dealing with me. Thoughts?
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You completely F*#$ed up. Bad.
Folks – this is a complete joke. Just read it again to realize this ladie is just messing with people to get a reaction.
Sadly, there ARE people that are stupid enough to gamble away 62K in one night, but this person didn’t do it.
Do you really think she would have just called up her parents, told them what happened, and then expect them to give her another 60K?
Read it again. You’ll realize I’m right.
if i was ur dad i would of give u 5,000$ that’s it and ya u did a bad move
FAIL.
Try to do better next time.
Here’s a tip, when you write "I am NOT making this up" right at the beginning, it’s a giveaway. To think you wasted all that time trying to come up with the rest of the story is just sad.
You’re quite the stroyteller.
You are very cute!
They gave you the money. That makes it yours. Do whatever you want with it.
It doesn’t sound like going to college was in the cards for you anyway (so to speak). You don’t seem very bright.
Thanks for stimulating the economy.
If this isn’t a made up story and you are telling the truth, then you have set the standard for all other idiots to aspire to. You probably couldn’t have done anything more stupid if you actually had a plan to do something stupid. Your friend Betsy needs her sorry ass kicked for taking you to the casino, right after she has apologised on bended knees to your parents for taking you there. Then you should get someone to kick your pathetic ass up and down the street for a few hours for being a selfish, foolish, immature, spoilt bee-yatch. Can you even begin to imagine how much you have betrayed your parent’s trust? I know people who would have to work 40 hours a week for a few YEARS to earn 60,000 dollars and you threw it all away in ONE NIGHT. With your self-centred attitude you don’t deserve any understanding or sympathy. Get your act together and spend the rest of your life working towards understanding the pain and disappointment you have caused the people who loved you and cared enough about you to actually risk investing in your future. You really are a total doorknob.
Debit cards usually have a daily limit of cash programmed in just in case you lose your card or someone steals it. I don’t believe you were able to withdraw that much money from your bank through your debit card in 24 hours. But who am I to call you a liar?
It took you to age 27 to earn a GED? You were offended your parents accused you of wasting your life? Well…believe it or not, I agree with you. At age 27 it is a tad too late for you parents to be so sanctimonious. They should have kicked you into gear much sooner like at age 19. But, I digress.
So, to the matter at hand.
I don’t think you are aware of the following: Casinos are built on the backs of people who lose money. All casinos games including slots favor the house. Unless you cheat, you can’t win over the long run. Nobody can win over the long run. Now you know that.
Perhaps you can compromise. Let mom and dad pay the college directly. You can get a job to support yourself. That I believe is a fair compromise.